The Frustrations of a Job Hunter

hire meNot much new on the job search front in the last few days, other than I recently signed up with a few freelance web sites hoping to get some income, because I don’t want to be on unemployment any longer than I have to.  And I need something to do. Nothing has come of the freelance sites yet, but I keep checking for new jobs and putting in bids for assignments.  Eventually something will break.

Now, can I just vent for a moment? Okay?  Thanks.

*deep breath*

I’m sure I’m not telling you anything new when I say that looking for a job is frustrating on so many levels.  It is especially frustrating when you get little response from your resume.  Now, I know my resume is good.  I’ve had it evaluated by professionals and they have said so.  So I know my lack of response is not due to that.  But just what, I don’t know.  Is it that there are many people applying for the same position?  Possibly.  But geez, I have plenty of experience and I’m good at what I do.  Damn good.    Continue reading


Product Review: Pantene Expert Advanced Keratin Repair

Well, hello there.  Long time no see.  How have you been?  Me?  So-so.  The summer has been meh, largely due to my job search thus far not amounting to much.  I did have an interview a couple of weeks ago that seems promising, and I’m hoping to hear from them soon.  I’ll keep you posted.

Pantene Expert Advanced Keratin Repair Shampoo and Conditioner

Pantene Expert Advanced Keratin Repair Shampoo and Conditioner

Meanwhile, I thought I’d try my hand at a product review.  There are a few newish products I’ve tried over the last few months that I considered, but the products I chose for my first review are Pantene Expert Keratin Repair Shampoo and Conditioner, which I decided to try after my stylist, Chuck, used keratin products on my hair and recommended I get them for home use.  See, my hair has been really bad lately, and that is rather traumatic for me because I’ve always had great hair.  I have hypothyroidism, or low thyroid function.  Among the lovely side effects of hypothyroidism are hair loss and change in hair texture.  My once thick, wavy, somewhat coarse hair has become thin and fine, with an absurd frizz.  My hair has always been frizzy enough to use a frizz-buster serum, but this has been crazy.  Like 100% humidity crazy frizz.  And I could do nothing to tame it.  Continue reading

The Red Wings’ Season Comes to an End

Detroit Red Wings' goaltender Jimmy Howard consoles defenseman Niklas Kronwall after losing to the Chicago Blackhawks, May 29, 2013.

Detroit Red Wings‘ goaltender Jimmy Howard consoles defenseman Niklas Kronwall after losing to the Chicago Blackhawks, May 29, 2013.

My Detroit Red Wings lost tonight to the Chicago Blackhawks in overtime of Game 7 of the Western Conference Semifinals.

I have to admit I didn’t hold out much hope that the Wings would win this series.  Heck, there was a time I didn’t think they’d make the playoffs.  There were big changes before the start of this lockout-shortened season, most notably the retirement of Norris Trophy-winning defenseman and Perfect Human Nicklas Lidstrom, and the decision by Brad Stuart to play for the San Jose Sharks, because his family lives in SoCal and he wanted to be near them.  A noble reason, and good for him for putting family first, but it stunk for the Wings.

Then once the shortened season got going, it seemed the Wings’ players were making a steady march to the infirmary.  At one point I believe there were nine players out with injuries – nine!  The upside of all these injuries is that a lot of the young players from the farm team in Grand Rapids got invaluable big league experience.    Continue reading

The Perks of Being Unemployed

WinnondWhat would you do if you suddenly found yourself out of work?  How would you look at the unexpected time off while searching for your next job?  For me, rather than curse it and look at it as a negative, I’ve decided to embrace it and use the time to do some things I enjoy.

The backstory – as I was getting ready for work on January 2, my boss called me to deliver the unfortunate news that, after nearly five years of employment, I was out of a job.  I’m not going to go into a long, drawn out explanation of why I was let go – because the reason isn’t long – just suffice it to say that it wasn’t my fault and my now ex-boss has graciously offered to write me letters of recommendation, should I need them.

Since then I have been looking for work to no avail.  I had four interviews – three in person and one phoner – within the first month but I did not get any of those jobs.  I was especially disappointed that I didn’t get one in particular, because when I left the interview I felt like it went very well and was certain I had the job, so to find out I didn’t get it was devastating.  I felt I was the perfect candidate, too, so I have no idea what went wrong.

Anyway, despite the lack of a real paycheck (I don’t consider unemployment checks real paychecks), being unemployed does have some perks.  Now before anyone thinks I’m content to just sit around all day and not work, that is so not the case.  I am actively and aggressively pursuing my Next Great Job and I hope I find it soon.  I love what I do and I am damn good at it, if I do say so myself, and I really want to get my career back on track and headed in the right direction. Continue reading

Should Auld Acquaintance Be Forgot…

Well, here we are at the end of 2012 and it was one hell of a year, not necessarily all good.  It started out fine, but went downhill quickly to the point that by mid summer I was looking forward to 2013.  So here are the highlights and lowlights from my own little personal corner of the world:

EMU 2I started grad school.  At this point I am halfway through a two-year master’s degree program in Integrated Marketing Communications at Eastern Michigan University.  And I have a 3.56 GPA.  Yes, I am proud of that!  At this time next year I’ll be graduating.  I’ve wanted to get a  master’s degree since I got my bachelor’s degree but just never got around to it.  I finally put my foot down and did it.  

My glasses - Vera Bradley "Natalie" frames in Make Me Blush

My glasses – Vera Bradley “Natalie” frames in Make Me Blush

I scratched my cornea, which resulted in my having to wear glasses for two weeks.  Thankfully late last year I got some super cute and totally fashionable new frames – they’re plummy purple and oh-so-subtley metallic.

I saw my first opera.  In May my friend Mike and I went to see I Pagliacci at the Michigan Opera Theatre.  It was a wonderful experience, far better than I expected it to be!  I hope I can go again next season.

sarah symphony

I saw Sarah McLachlan at Meadowbrook on July 1.  She always puts on a great show.  Despite the heat and humidity (and stupid me wearing my hair down and forgetting to pack a pony tail holder in my giant Vera Bradley bag), it was an awesome show.  It was a little different as she had a symphony backing her, but Sarah was splendid.   Continue reading

A Trip Into the Past

My dad when he entered the Navy in 1943.

Not long ago, a friend of my dad’s gave him a kitchen table and chairs to dispose of.  A nice set – farmhouse-style, relatively newish looking, consisting of a beechwood topped table with three matching chairs.  Rather than seeing it tossed into a landfill he asked me if my best friend and her husband, who live in Hamtramck, would like it.  Of course they said yes, so one evening last month after dinner I helped my dad load the set into the back of his pickup truck and we set off south towards Hamtown, as it’s affectionately known by the locals.

My father was born in Detroit in 1925 and grew up in Hamtramck, which, at the time and up until the 1980’s, was a haven for Polish immigrants.  There are still a lot of Polish people in Hamtramck, but it is definitely more multicultural today.  He lived there until he went off to join the Navy during World War II, and it is to Hamtramck he returned when the war was over.  Although we live a mere 15 minutes away, he doesn’t get down to the old neighborhood much.  There’s no reason to.  In fact, I don’t remember the last time he was in Hamtramck.  So when he decided to take the “scenic route” to my friend’s house, I didn’t say anything, but just smiled to myself.

Hamtramck is pretty easy to get to from my neighborhood – westbound I-696 to southbound I-75, straight to the Holbrook-Caniff exit.  However, rather than take this (read: faster) route, we took Mound Road, which ends at Mt. Elliot and takes you directly into the east end of Hamtramck.  Once we passed McNichols my dad stepped into his past.  I could see the look in his eyes change, going back in time.  His eyes are still blue but they have seen so much since his days as a towheaded boy growing up during the Great Depression.  He told me how he and his friends used to play baseball in the cemetery, which had a lot more open space back then, as it wasn’t as occupied with the graves of those who came before.  We came to the oddly named Simon K Street, and turned right to drive past Transfiguration Catholic Church, which is now the seat of the newly named Blessed John Paul II Parish.  He told me of how he went to Catholic school there for the first eight years of his education and how his family would walk to the church for Mass from their home just a couple blocks away.  Continue reading


Barack Obama won a second term as US president on November 6. Is anyone besides me glad it’s over?

Life.  It’s what happens!

Geez I’ve been busy lately!  This half-semester is rough – I’ve got two classes and I’ve been doing so much writing for class that the blog kind of got ignored yet again!  I promise though to do my best to even write short posts.

Where did I leave off?  Oh yes, the World Series.  My Tigers didn’t win.  Boo.  But I am very proud of them to at least get to the World Series.  I blame their loss on Gary Bettman.

Speaking of Mr. Bettman – where is my hockey?  Baseball season is over and traditionally that means the start of hockey season, but nooooo.  I’m not even going to get into the specifics but suffice it to say that the NHL is being incredibly greedy, demanding more concessions from the players after they gave up 24 percent of their salaries to end the last lockout, which was just eight years ago.  Many of my hockey fan friends are fed up, and so am I.  And the Winter Classic was cancelled!!  The only good thing about the lockout is I have more time for homework.  But I want my Red Wings back.  Just get it done, dammit.

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